What is Love without sex??... no sex no love??

hurm.. ths was the question my friend saidin asked me during our dinner.. hurm.. it really made me thinking.. ada yang betul apa kata saidin tu.. but for me.. it all depends on the individual itself.. ths is dubjective... for me... in my opinion...

  • ok, i've been in a relationship few times.. the first one was when i was in hilton working there as a waiter.. so,, someone asked me if i could be bf to nya.. i was like so in cloud 9 that time.. it was my first time but to be honest , i am still x tahu why nya choose me?... hurm.. i am that time very fat(11Kg's), and xda orng minat me... hurm.. awkward... so, i asked nya kenak nya choose me?.. well, nya tol me that i am not like other guys yang suka kaconya.. n we declared our r/ship kat star cineplex!!. hehehe.. n we hold hand sepanjang movie ya!!.

  • second was in matrix life.. , i still donno nya pun status.. a friend or a lover.. nya was a very good a friend of mine.. and i had a crush on nya.. maybe nya x tauk but ya, ada something between us when we were at sabah together.. hehe....

  • third was in unimas.. but nya ran away with someone.. hurm.. still appreciate it though!..

well, ada gik before2 ya but i dont want to post it here...

  • the first one is the best one i had so far cos i told nya that i dont want u to like me for sex!!.. n nya kata i like u cos of the way u are.. nya call kmk everynite n sms me too.. hurm.. sampai i say stop.. n i want a break n space.. nya pun ok jak....

  • second one is also great as nya very kind.. nya very kind to me...we had a great time at sabah together.. hahanya sabahan bah...

  • the third one.. i just can say that its just a teenage love affair.. hahaha..

n others2 yang i x mention.. they just want sex!!!. hurm...so the question here is.. who u really love? and do he/she loves u?.. n it depends on u to decide..nak sex or love?..
so it depends on the individual itself... the new r/ship i have now with a.e is more than a lover's r/ship.. its a r/ship built with trust n friendship.. we started as a friend haha. yaka?.. haha. adeh eh.. n i told nya that i am not loving u cos of sex .. n nya pun agreed.. nya pun x minat sex.. (serey!!).. haha.. lol..but i really hope my r/ship with a.e will last n x putus2 sampai bila2..

n i do not interested in sex juak.. if pelok n kiss is enough for me.. biarlah sex ya after marriage or with someone we really love.. bukan nya sebarangan.. heheh. okay!!.. okay jawapan saye saidin?..

2 comments:

rainbow said...

love is universal...sex is just a part of love...we love our god,family,lover,friends...

Darin Azri said...

yes.. that's so true wanda... love is very universal.. it connects us to all .. but sex must be kept... its part of love..if we love someone than we can deide to have sex or not.. bukan with sebarangan orng